Barb Demore
Living With Cancer
Updated: Jan 1, 2020
How does one live with cancer?
I am writing from the perspective of someone who has been diagnosed
with breast cancer three times beginning in 2001. Each diagnosis has
been more serious, despite adhering to the prescribed treatments and
medications.
My current diagnosis is stage 4 metastatic breast cancer which has
spread to my bones. According to my oncologist, my condition is
treatable but not curable.
My treatment protocols include a prescribed estrogen blocker (Ibrance)
and two different monthly injections (Faslodex and Xgeva).
When I was first diagnosed, I did briefly experience the “why me” phase,
but quickly realized it would serve no purpose to dwell on that aspect of
my situation. As of now, I feel good and am able to lead an active lifestyle.
I have come to realize that my condition is really no different from that
of someone diagnosed with other illnesses such as congestive heart
failure or diabetes, which are also treatable but not curable.
One of the key truisms I have learned through my experiences is that it
is extremely important to maintain a positive attitude.
So, how do I live with cancer? One day at a time.